I am new to the site and need a lil help. I am having relationship problems. My boyfriend well now ex boyfriend does not understand bi polar and how i need his help and support. And right now im not sure if i understand this whole bi polar thing. But its to the point that i stopped taking my meds and i sit in the bar everyday and get drunk. I guess im asking for some advice on what to do and what i can say to get him to understand better what bi polar is and what i need from him. Right now any thing would help me. thank you