I'm new here. I decided to try and find an online discussion group because I feel like I've lived with bp alone for so long. (I've had it for 5 years) My family and close friends are really supportive, but they just don't get how it feels and I'm tired of going at it alone.

My question for today is, how soon is it to tell a boyfriend? I've been dating for a little while, only about a month and I don't want to reveal all right now. But, I do want to be honest and feel like I can really be myself around him. When do you guys find it's the right time to tell? My biggest fear is that he won't take it well and he'll leave me and I'll end up all alone. I'm afraid that I'll never marry. All of my close friends are married and I feel like it's my time too, but it just hasn't happenned yet.

Any insight?